Ideal Relationship Level: Dirty questions and topics are great for when you're getting intimate with each other. Receiving validation and reciprocation here is so healthy for a relationship. Why It's Great: Our fantasies are also powerful keys to freedom and healing old wounds. You can actually wait for her to bring it up so you'd be sure it's a safe topic to discuss. Take this useful relationship advice from me: don't talk about the past when you're only a couple of weeks in. I didn't think that she might not be okay talking about her past, especially when we've been together for a few days. Ideal Relationship Level: In a past relationship of mine, I talked about this way too early. Talking about this will tell you a lot about your partner's personality as an adult. The moments we felt validated as children shape our problem-solving as adults. Why It's Great: Remembering our childhoods is necessary to better understand ourselves as adults. Discover which of the things you did together were memorable to her. Ideal Relationship Level: In the first few months ,couples explore many places, restaurants and experiences together. Use the information you have to plan great trips and experiences for the two of you. When you know what she enjoys doing, you have a guide to your future dates and plans. Why It's Great: Asking interesting questions like this will strengthen your bond as a couple. Ideal Relationship Level: I like using this as a conversation starter early into the relationship. What makes her heart and soul sing? Knowing what your partner likes to do is an important thing in a healthy relationship. Why It's Great: We're more than our jobs and the weather. The communication only remains healthy and positive if both parties are on board.Via: Mantelligence 1. “Do they return it with a smile or cringe a little? Are they using baby talk back and returning the favor, or do they continue to talk to you normally?” Look for nonverbal cues to see if your partner’s feeling it, and if that fails ask them straight up. “Notice their reaction if you call them a certain pet name or use a childlike tone,” advises Smerling. If it annoys your partner, then it’ll backfire and won’t foster bonding. Even though baby talk is normal, healthy behavior, it's always good to make sure both people feel good about it. An endearing nickname thrown in is perfectly okay, of course. Both scenarios require honest, open adult communication. It’s best to avoid using baby talk during serious conversations or when you're fighting, notes Hall. Some couples may not care what others think, but it’s best to make sure you and your partner are on the same page (and one of you isn’t embarrassed by the interaction in front of others), and that you’re being respectful of the company around you. “Baby talk is usually going to garner eye-rolling from outsiders, so couples may want to limit their bonding behavior in public,” says Hall. Here are times when you should press pause on the cooing: There are a handful of situations that call for a more straight-and-narrow communication approach. Now that we know baby talk is a promising sign, we ought to do a bit of due diligence.
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